Cooking Lessons

My mother counting gefilte fish before the Passover seder

By Joanne Jagoda

her kitchen, her kingdom
she, a conjurer of magical offerings
from an ancient O’Keefe and Merritt
just one smallish oven
a clock that read 12:30
never shedding her European roots
her repertoire solid, good food

I, an interloper
spoiled first- generation over-achiever
rarely offering to help
attempting disastrous half-hearted cooking forays
but it was really OK with her
school was priority to our immigrant parents

but I’ll forever regret I didn’t watch
when she made her roasts
heavenly smells of braised meat filling the house

and I didn’t observe
when she baked her masterpieces
apfel kuchen redolent with cinnamon
swollen yeast doughs like big stomachs
patted down then smothered with cut Italian plums

but thankfully I gleaned
what was important
from the little things she did
like paprika dusted carefully
hand-chopped parsley garnish
her presentations flawless

and when she made lunch for Mr. Cooper,
a crusty handyman in worn denim overalls
I learned what it meant
to be gracious and hospitable
to anyone who came to our house

a glass of Manischewitz, Campbell’s Vegetarian Vegetable soup simmering
thick egg salad with mayo and French’s on challah
a generous slice of her marble pound cake
arranged on a cut-glass plate
those precious lessons I never forgot.

Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash

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